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Friday, August 8, 2008

Friday Fill-Ins #2!



1. You know you're old when you fall asleep twenty minutes before the end of every movie you watch if you start it after 7!

2. My heart is divided between Snickers and Reese's cups. (I couldn't do something serious for this, because my heart isn't divided- I give it all to my family, especially my BEND!)

3. A deep tissue massage is what I need RIGHT NOW! (my back is killing me!)

4. I have felt the true loyalty of family, I have known the depths of love.

5. Gah, won't these people stop harping on about tires! Grow up and care about the meaningful parts of politics, why don't you?

6. Get out of debt as soon as you can! (That would be advice to myself... haha)

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to shopping for my friend's wedding present and getting a good night's sleep, tomorrow my plans include lounging, cleaning, and maybe having a friend up and Sunday, I want to dance around with my girl and take her to the park (if it doesn't rain)!

Random Bendy in Cute Suit Pics!

Over this past weekend, we were hanging out on the porch and I got the bright idea to fill one of our laundry bins with bubble water and toys and let Bendy play in it. Well, that didn't really work out, because she wasn't sure what to do with it- I don't think she understood that it was out there for her to play with... She sort of just stared into it, then continued to run around like a maniac. In any case, I thought she looked super cute in her two-piece bathing suit that the Cey-Cey bought her, so I wanted to share a couple of pics I took.

Yes, yes, I ponder... AND pontificate.



This one is pretty washed out, but I love it anyway! My pretty little bend with her belly button poking out :)



Looking out on the world... She says "outSIDE, outSIDE". She LOVES the outdoors, so I can't wait to take her camping! Hopefully this year before the season is over...



This one doesn't really fit with the others, I just wanted to put it cuz it was cute, too. This is my little family, minus me on this past Tuesday, August 5. Notice Deuce Dingle creeping up to get some love and try to munch the popsicle... haha! Ignore the laundry and dishes in the back, please- this was a chore night! I was folding things and eating on the couch. heh.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

Our First Ever (Sort of) Garden :D

For years, I haven't been able to keep a plant alive. I know the principles of gardening- I've been watching my Dad, stepmom, Mother in law and Mom do it for years with amazing skill and actually reap the rewards of a pretty yard and some yummy fresh veggies- but, for some reason, they have never really translated for me... Whether I was watering too much, putting them on the wrong side of the house, or they just didn't like me, who knows. As of a few years ago, I had pretty much given up and been resigned to the fact that my apartment would be bare of plant life for all time. Sad, but true.

This year, I decided to give it a go again.

It started when, on Mother's Day, I was given a plant as a gift from my Mother and Stepfather in law. They handed it over with a grin and said, "Hope it's alive next time we see you..." I had to laugh, but it made me all the more determined to keep THIS ONE alive. I almost failed again, I must admit. I hadn't gotten around to potting the plant after about a week, and it was really starting to droop and look like a sad little specimen. So I finally got my butt in gear, bought a pot and some Miracle Gro soil- I figured I can use all the help I can get. Once I'm a pro, maybe I'll consider going pesticide-free. heh.

Well, my plant came back! Bright and bushy and alive, in all its glory. Maybe being a Mommy has somehow made me more in tune with the pulse of life in all things- or probably, that's just hokey and finally something clicked and I figured out what I was doing wrong before. Or maybe it's just the location of my porch and the light it gets. All I knew was, I was psyched!



So I became inspired. When we went to the Farmer's Market a couple weeks later, I bought a pumpkin. Now, mind you, we don't have a yard. But I was told by the farmer at said market that this pumpkin (which is a special red kind, for even more coolness bonus points here) that if I bought a big enough pot, I could actually grow my pumpkin right on my porch! Yay! I was thinking that by the time Halloween rolls around, even if it's only a tiny little pumpkin, any home-grown pumpkin would be a cool source of fun for us and the Bend- to decorate and put a shiny red pumpkin out front will make her feel like such a big girl! So I brought him home, got him a pot... And here he is, weeks later, looking rather healthy and with a lot more leaves than he had when we bought him:



And then... My Stepmom gave me a whole bunch more plants. She had gotten a couple of flats for free off a friend who has a greenhouse, so she passed some along to me, too. Looking at all of them, I thought for sure, this is the end of my lucky streak with plants. There's no way I can keep like ten of them alive at once. But I'm happy to report, I was wrong! They are ALL thriving, and once Illy got over her urge to pull them out of their pots (which took a while- she had uprooted a few of them before she caught on that they're not toys and are supposed to stay IN the pots) they started growing like crazy and the flowers are blooming! So for once, I have a garden. Of some sort. I don't know that it counts when it's just ten pots scattered across the porch, but it still makes me happy. I go out there every day and check on them and it's so crazy just how fast they grow- it's good to know SOMETHING grows faster than little kids :P Here are some more pics I took of my happy little bunch:


Pots lined up in a row...



Some hot and spicy Oregano!



Flowers are oh-so-pretty...



Especially sneaky red ones that I didn't expect!




Lavender growing like wildfire looks like crazy hair.



More Lavender and some purple flowers with yellow centers (yeah, yeah, I should know the names, but I don't.)



I think this is the saddest pot. I ran out of plants, so there were only two in this one! Still growing, though...



Three flower colors...


I love purple flowers.

Friday, August 1, 2008

First Friday Fill-Ins EVER :)




I like this new meme I found, so I decided to try it out... Here goes:

1. I believe whatever doesn't kill you either makes you stronger, or makes you go crazy.

2. If you're good at something, don't take it for granted- use it as much as you can.

3. Why so many weird weather patterns this summer?

4. Something is out there, it's karma- you can't see it, but it will either bite you in the butt or surprise you with happiness when you least expect.

5. If my life were a sitcom, it would be titled Traveling with Toddler.

6. Sitting on my back porch [if you don't have one, use your imagination] I see my potted plants, Illy's Dora bike, the river rushing by beneath the bridge on Main Street, the laundromat, the Northern Rail Trail, and the building with the little organic restaurant and tattoo parlor in it.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to possibly watching a movie, spending time with the Bend, and sleeping well, tomorrow my plans include the HUGE annual summer bash at Greg and Kristin's! and Sunday, I want to probably sleep some more, because I'll be pooped after partying all night!

This was pretty fun, and harder than I thought! I found this meme at:

http://fridayfillins.blogspot.com/2008/07/friday-fill-ins-82.html

PS: The Friday Fill-Ins for this week weren't up on the site yet, so I cheated and used last week's. :P

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Tail End of Bloggy Giveaway Week!!

Sooo, I just found out it's bloggy giveaway week! I'm so excited to be entering a few of these... I would have done a giveaway myself had I know about it sooner! I guess next quarter I'll just have to pay more attention :P Since I didn't catch this early enough to host a giveaway, I'm trying not to be selfish and enter too many, but it's hard not to be greedy with so many GREAT offers!

Anyway, here are some of my favorite giveaways so far- mind you, I'll be editing this as I go because there are TONS of giveaways this time (I mean, like over 900 so far) so I'm still working my way down the list as much as I can before the giveaways end!


(1) $50 Target Giveaway From Unexpected Bliss

(2) Land's End Backpack From Musings of a Housewife

(3) $20 Target gift card (the Tar-jay cards seem to be a theme... :D) at Adventures In Babywearing

(4) $50 gift card OF YOUR CHOICE!!! (How awesome is that?!?!) at Mommy of Three

(5) Kissable Lips lip balm and trial size body wash from Mambino Organics at Goodies For Mom (and baby too!)

(6) Mystery Grab Bag full of items at Monkey Giggles I loved this idea... it gives a little bit of intrigue to the whole thing!

(7) Beautiful Blue Topaz necklace at Life With Three

(8) iPod Shuffle and Target gift cards from Annie's Eyes

(9) $300 Gift Certificate to Amazon, $100 to Williams Sonoma, and $50 cash via paypal at My Wooden Spoon

(10) $100 Target gift card from Simply Amusing Blog

More to come, but I'm leaving work for the day! Enjoy these great giveaways!

Not a MeMe- Rather, A YouYou

I loved this idea, so had to steal it! I hope some people actually come and see it and comment, cuz it could be lots of fun!

Anyway, this is how it works:

Comment on this entry. Any comment will do. After you comment, I'll answer/guess/makeup the answers to these questions:

1. What I'd say to you if we were to hangout in real-life.

2. What television/movie character you are most like.

3. Your favorite way to eat potatoes.

4. What your favorite ride/activity/food is at the fair.

It doesn't matter if I know you, if you have never commented before this, nothing. If you do have a blog, make sure that I can find it so I can find out a little about you to make the answers more interesting. Sounds fun? Leave a comment!

Thursday Thirteen #3- Illy Speak




Thirteen Things Bendy Has Said (Not
Counting Mama and Dada!)

1. Surprise!
2. Woof! Woof!
3. I get you!
4. Hiiii! (Waving forward, at you)
5. Buh-bye! (Waving backwards at herself)
6. Boom, boom! (At the fireworks 4th of
July or pretty much any loud noise.)
7. I did it!
8. Bounce
9. Thank you! (As she hands YOU something.)
10. Do-do (That's Dora...)
11. No (This one is just starting, and I can
already tell it won't be fun!)
12. Ba-ball (I don't know where the extra
syllable came from)
13. Wow! I see! (Exclaiming at anything new,
i.e., on our walk the other day, at the sky, at
the flowers, at the rocks... heh)




Get the Thursday Thirteen code here!


The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others' comments. It’s easy, and fun! Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted!





Thursday, June 26, 2008

Thursday Thirteen #2-Thirteen of our Fave Shows






Thirteen of our Favorite Shows...


1. Jack's Big Music Show
2. So You Think You Can Dance
3. Reno 911!
4. Family Guy/ American Dad
5. Bones
6. Weeds
7. Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
8. Backyardigans
9. Dexter
10. NCIS
11. Criminal Minds
12. America's Next Top Model
13. Dirty Sexy Money


Betcha can't guess which of us three likes which shows?? hehe.

Get the Thursday Thirteen code here!


The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others' comments. It’s easy, and fun! Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted!






Song for a Fifth Child- Poem

I saw this poem on someone else's blog and I really loved it. It's so true, so fitting... Where does the time go? Why do they have to grow so fast? As Will said to me recently, "Now I know why some people want to keep having babies- the time flies by so fast!"

Song for a Fifth Child

by Ruth Hulburt Hamilton
1958

Mother, oh Mother, come shake out your cloth,
empty the dustpan, poison the moth,

hang out the washing and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.

Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She's up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.

Oh, I've grown shiftless as Little Boy Blue (lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due (pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo).
The shopping's not done and there's nothing for stew
and out in the yard there's a hullabaloo,
but I'm playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren't her eyes the most wonderful hue?


The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,

for children grow up, as I've learned to my sorrow.

So quiet down cobwebs.
Dust go to sleep.
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep.

Silly Slacker Girl...

Soo... I apologize for not having updated in a while, things have been crazy and frankly I decided that not many people view my blog anyway, so it's been on the back burner. Now, though, there have been some new developments in our lives which I thought I'd share, because we're really excited that life --finally-- seems to be heading in the right direction for us. On that note, here's what's new:

(1) Dada found a job! He starts this coming Monday, the 30th and will be the new shipping manager at a small printing company in the next town over. I'm so proud, and also happy for him that he has found a job that has room for growth and will take advantage of all his computer skills. No more busting butt laboring, being on top of roofs and ladders or breathing in yucky chemicals that make him feel gross. On top of that, my boss said I can rearrange my schedule so that the two of us can carpool (we work about 5 miles from each other) which will save on gas (how important is that right now?!?!) and also make my morning drive more interesting.

(2) Due to #1, Bendy will be starting daycare on Monday also! We have found an awesome, reliable, and affordable woman to watch her-recommended by my boss, which cuts down a lot on our worry as parents. We went and met Carol, the new sitter, last week- she's an older woman who was an elementary teacher for a long time, but has been doing daycare for about the past twenty years. I really think Illy will love it there, even though I'm sure she'll miss being home with her Dada... There are about six kids, and one of them is a two year old girl, so she'll have at least one little friend that is around her age. Now we just have to worry about all starting to get up early enough to get us to our destinations on time! :)

(3) Will and I had our eight year anniversary! Didn't do anything special, because we're broke and it's not really a significant year... but it still blows my mind. We have been together for exactly 1/3 of my lifetime now. Craziness!

(4) Ilyana has learned the rhythms to all of her favorite songs and started to sing along with them... Most times, she doesn't get the words, just sings out the rhythm with a "da" sound, but the other day, we overheard her sing "Backyaaaarrrrddddigans". lol.

(5) She now says "ouch", "uh-oh", and "whoa" all the time. They're her new favorite phrases. That's okay with me... I'd rather "Whoa!" than "No!" :P

(6) She PEED ON THE POTTY! TWO TIMES!!! And totally unprovoked- on her own! I wasn't home, but I hear it was rather amazing. I was told she went over to her potty and sat on it with her diaper on and started bouncing, so Dada asked her "Do you need to go pee on the potty?" And he took her diaper off and she sat right down and peed! Then she did it again a few minutes later. She hasn't since then, but we're not pushing it- she's so young to be doing it now, we're just psyched it has already happened once! WOOO Bendy! You go girl :) Prior to this, she was just using her potty as a place to store her extra animal crackers. So she's definitely making progress... lol. The pic below wasn't from the day she peed on the potty, it was just one of the times she was hanging out sitting on her potty, drinking juice... You know, like all of us do.


I think that sums it up, although later I'll probably be hitting myself saying "Why didn't you think of that?!?" That's the nature of my scatter-brain. C'est la vie. Have a happy Thursday and a wonderful weekend!!
 
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